Positive education is not just a set of tips, but an approach that helps a child to grow a confident and successful person. The key element is the ability to properly praise and encourage, focusing on efforts and progress, not just on results. Let’s analyze the basic principles.
We praise the efforts, not just the result
Forget about phrases like “Smar girl, you did everything right!”. Instead, focus on effort and process: “I see how you tried to put this puzzle together. You’ve spent so much time and patience, it’s wonderful!” It is important to show that you appreciate the efforts made, even if the result is not perfect.
Specific and sincere praise
Avoid general phrases. Be specific: “I really liked how you carefully painted this drawing, especially the trees – the colors are chosen perfectly!”. Sincerity is the key to success. The child will feel falsehood if the praise is mechanical.
Encouragement is not only material
Gifts and sweets are good, but not the only incentive option. Spend time on a joint activity that the child likes: take a walk in the park, play his favorite game, read a book together. Quality time is priceless.
Focus on progress
It is important to note even small successes. If a child tries to learn how to ride a bike and falls, praise him for his attempts and progress, for example: “You already keep your balance much better than yesterday! Keep trying, and you will definitely succeed!”.
Remember, positive education is an investment in your child’s future. The ability to praise and encourage correctly will help him not only to achieve success, but also to grow up to be a happy and self-confident person. Use these tips and you will see how your relationship with your child will change.